Reasons for not succeeding or failing
We all want to be successful. But not everyone can be normal. Those who are, see them from afar and sigh. Have you ever wondered, what is the difference between you and them? What exactly is the reason you can't be like them?
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Reasons for not succeeding or failing:
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One of the main reasons for not succeeding or failing is our thoughts... thoughts that keep you from success in the first place. If you can get out of them, you will go half way.
'I have no chance'
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Has opportunity ever come by itself to anyone? no Those who are not eligible will not get the opportunity. This is the rule of the world. So you have to grab the opportunity.
Even ten years ago there was a saying. If you were an ordinary child of an ordinary family, you would have waited for an opportunity to prove yourself, for the wheels of fortune to turn.
But today this idea is invalid. There is nothing that cannot be done with the Internet. Don't have busines
s capital? Open the Facebook Store. Don't have the skills? There are many free online courses. Go abroad? From applying to learning the language—do it all at home. Need ideas for something new? Lots of camps, youth get-togethers—participate spontaneously.
If you still feel like you are not getting the 'opportunity', then bad news. You don't have the mindset to try. Unless you are creating opportunities yourself, success will remain elusive.
"It's not my fault"
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Maybe someone took your chance, stole your idea. The supplier may have killed the money. Business partner cheated. Or customers may not understand the benefits of your product.
What to blame them? no Remember, you don't have the power to control them. Only you can control yourself. So why pointless blame?
No matter what the cause of failure—admit it was your fault. This thought is not just to comfort yourself, at least in ninety percent of cases it is true.
Accepting responsibility for one's failures is a great quality that separates successful people from others. As a result, they can learn from mistakes. Don't make the same mistake again.
And if you can't do that, then you can assume that you will have to spend the next ten years blaming others like this.
'Where is all this time?'
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have time As Bill Gates had time, so do you. It is about how to use this time.
Time is not predetermined. It will work itself out, you just have to take advantage of it. Being fit doesn't mean working all day. Put what you want to achieve first and then sort out the rest.
A common theme among the world's most successful people is awareness of time. They gave as much time as needed to make their wishes come true. If Steve Jobs had given more importance to education and worked in his 'free time', would Apple have stood?
Spend as much time as you want on what you want to be. If you still feel like you can't find the time, then it's better to give up trying.
'I'd do that if it happened'
"If I had a little more salary, I would work harder." "If I had a little more experience, I would definitely do something myself."
The words turned upside down, didn't they?
Hard work leads to promotion, salary increases. Simply put, earn more salary. Trying something yourself gives experience, sometimes success. It also has to be achieved.
We don't even understand this very simple equation. I sit across the cart before the horse, i.e. I expect exchange before going to work.
Think of success or exchange as a reward. First come the competition, then the question of the prize. If you can't think in this way, you will have to sit disappointed in the hope of higher salary or experience.
'I have no special qualities'
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"Successful people have extraordinary qualities. I have none of the ideas, talent, enthusiasm, skills, creativity.'
It is very easy and safe to think like this. That is probably why we think like this and retire early.
But there can be no more wrong thinking than this. A thing of intellectual development, a thing of practice. No one is born with the ability to succeed on their own. Little by little, you have to try to develop your quality, you have to check your talent. Its final result is called success.
You are not born with cricket talent like Sachin Tendulkar. So can not have the quality of football? Until you check, how to understand?
Think the same way about careers. Sticking to the most basic quality, there is no stopping Tendulkar in his place.
Remember, the most ordinary quality becomes extraordinary with practice. And since everyone has a brain and a mind as humans, everyone has this common quality. All you need to do is believe in yourself.
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In order to be successful, some things should be kept in mind:-
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1. A decision must be made before going to work.
2. When one task is completed, one must think of another task.
3. It is not allowed to float in the current of time.
4. Do not give priority to your own will.
5. Harmful habits should be avoided.
6. Good or bad must be judged.
7. In all cases the action of judgment must be expressed.
8. Education should always be in the mind of those who have attained status in life.
9. Healipna cannot be acted upon. You have to maintain your weight in all areas. The price of right work has to be paid in all areas. Do not be careless in any work.
10. Don't be preoccupied with thoughts that are not possible.
11. It must be remembered that excitement sometimes makes things confusing.
12. Don't take credit for yourself.
13. Don't make any ceremony too much.
14. Must have knowledge of politeness. Jealousy-violence should be avoided, humility and cheerfulness should be.
15. There should not be any behavior in the character which reveals the ugly nature of the character.
16. Fraud should not occur accidentally in any work.
17. Love is compassion for all, the meaning of such words must be applied at work.
18. Beautiful Aadash Prati-Drishti must be registered.
19. To refrain from wrongdoing.
20. You can't criticize others by keeping the fault in yourself, if you do something wrong, you have to ask for forgiveness.
21. The interests of others should be considered bigger than one's own interests.
Collected from internet